Let's start by introducing ourselves. What I'd like to know is: your names, ages of your children and anything You want to tell us about yourself. -Well, I guess, I'll begin. I'm Earle Asher. This is my wife Barbara. We have a son Danny who just turned four and a daughter Abbie. She's seven. -Yes. Actually Abbie is my stepdaughter from Earle's first marriage and Um.. well, we're having.. a little.. a few problems with her. -Uh! A few problems! That's putting it mildly!.. Abbie is so stubborn. She is so uncooperative. It's a constant power struggle. -So it's Abbie who's your major concern here. -Yes -OK -I'm Keyla Martin. My older daughter July is thirteen and Alice is ten. I am recently divorced and I'm afraid that divorce has been especially hard on Alice. She's just very angry and I tired talk to her and explaning things and she just will not listen, she doesn't want to hear it and I don't know what to do any more.